Thursday, May 27, 2010

The Truth Behind Falling in Love

Love is the most abused and misused word in our hypothalamus. Many lovers when asked why they got steady and they would answer it because they fell in love. How would you define love?

Love may be spelled in accordance to what we really had experienced, felt and internalized. Take for example the love of a child to his parents or our love to God. The love we are discussing here is about falling in love and what does the expression “fall in love” really mean.

Radically, when use this term, it often pinned with the two lovers in love with their hearts. However, it is just one factor in the cycle of love. When we fall in love we should fall in love with our hearts and minds.

Love takes time to develop. I don’t believe that it suddenly fall just like stars. It comes when two individuals decided to live their lives and aim to make their relationship an everlasting.

However, love is an emotion. It is an energy in motion that’s why it either increasing or decreasing in terms of feeling. The highest portion usually focus at the beginning of falling in love. It tends to decrease very slowly after some few years due to some minor crisis in between the relationship but I believe that the faithful each other are, the longer the relationship stays.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Girls Like Boys in Many Ways

For sure, girls out there like me would probably in the same wavelength in choosing their own dream guys. This must be the question that boys wanted to know about the girls. What do most girls like in boys?

Do they like decent boys or fast boys? As girls reach the puberty stage, they developed their emotional and social aspect towards their society. They begin to admire their opposite sex and even interested in boys.

Most girls like boys who are neat, clean, and well groom. They mostly like boys who didn't break promises and do what they said... It would be better if boys could contribute an interesting conversation not leaving all to the girls. The most hated scenario of girls would probably be when boys are too bossy about themselves and act as if he knows everything and most of all too jealous when girls talk with other boys. Eeerrr!

They wanted also to be respected by boys morally and could wait. They wanted boys who know when to throw a joke and when to be in serious. They like boys who could give an honest compliment and appreciate their attractiveness. They wanted also to be accepted for what they know their strengths and weaknesses. Of course, who would like to accept smokers, drug addicts, and hard drinkers? Total turn off!

So girls, choose properly... Boys, watch out!


This song is dedicated to all girls who are searching for their own dream guys.


Jordin Sparks lyrics - One Step At A Time

da da da um da da
da da da ba um da da
da da da um da da
da da da ba um da da

Hurry up and wait
So close, but so far away
Everything that you always dreamed of
Close enough for you to taste
But you just can't touch

HOOK
You wanna show the world but no one knows yours name yet
Wonderin' when, where and how you're going to make it
You know you can if you get the chance
In your face and the door keeps slamming
Now you're feeling more and more frustrated
And you getting all kinda impatient
Waiting, we live and we learn

CHORUS
To take one step at a time
There's no need to rush
It's like learning to fly, or falling in love
It's gonna happen when it's supposed to happen
And we find the reasons why
One step at a time

da da da um da da
da da da ba um da da
da da da um da da
da da da ba um da da

You believe, and you doubt
You're confused, and got it all figured out
Everything that you always wished for
Could be yours, should be yours, would be yours
If they only knew

HOOK
You wanna show the world but no one knows yours name yet
Wonderin' when, where and how you're going to make it
You know you can if you get the chance
In your face and the door keeps slamming
Now you're feeling more and more frustrated
And you getting all kinda impatient
Waiting, we live and we learn

CHORUS
To take one step at a time
There's no need to rush
It's like learning to fly, or falling in love
It's gonna happen when it's supposed to happen
And we find the reasons why
One step at a time

When you can't wait any longer (you can't wait)
But there's no end in time (when you need to find the strength)
It's your faith that makes you stronger (the only way we get there)
The only way we get there
Is one step at a time

To take one step at a time
There's no need to rush
It's like learning to fly, or falling in love (Falling in love)
It's gonna happen when it's supposed to happen
And we find the reasons why
One step at a time

One step at a time
There's no need to rush
It's like learning to fly, or falling in love (Falling in love)
It's gonna happen when it's supposed to happen
And we find the reasons why
One step at a time

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

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Love vs Infatuation


I had asked some of my friends and classmates to distinguish the difference between love and infatuation... Most of them would say that love is for a lifetime while infatuation last only for a short period of time... others say that love is something intimate. on the other hand, infatuation is just admiring towards opposite sex because he had something that could turn them on.

Probably, love and infatuation have something in common. It could be the strong feeling of affection towards opposite sex who made them creates an imagination that they could be together as couple or make their heartbeat faster.

Here are some questions to test if you really feel love or infatuation... These questions were made through my own perception but it could help in analyzing the difference of the two.

Answer only true or false then check how you scored yourself in defining true love.
  1. Love at first sight exist.
  2. Premarital sex is acceptable during boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
  3. You will know when true love hit.
  4. There is no way for a couple to fight when they love each other too much.
  5. It it easy for you to tell the difference between love and infatuation.
  6. It is just okay for a person to be in love with several persons at the same time.
  7. When you're in love, your focus in other activities declined.
  8. When you really love someone, you know he is the right one.
  9. When two persons were really in love, they will marry too soon.
  10. Young persons have been in love before they become mature enough.
  11. Love is something complicated.
  12. When you love the person, you will really look at him at the positive side of his life.
  13. You don't care with the people around you as long as you love each other.
  14. Absence make the heart Grow fonder.
  15. Frequent quarrels, and misunderstanding will not be possible if you really in love.
  16. It is better to marry the wrong person than to be single.
  17. When you really love each other, you will overcome all the obstacles that hinder your relationship.
  18. When your in love, you're often caught daydreaming.
  19. When you are really in love, you will make out what best in you.
  20. You believe in fate.







Answer:


All statement are false except number 10 and 19.
20-17 - you really had a better understanding about love.
15-16 - you did well.
14 and below - you need help in understanding what love means.


This song is dedicated to all who feel confused between love and infatuation for someone.

Crush - David Archuleta


I hung up the phone tonight
Something happened for the first time deep inside
It was a rush, what a rush

'Cause the possibility
That you would ever feel the same way about me
It's just too much, just too much

Why do I keep running from the truth?
All I ever think about is you
You got me hypnotized, so mesmerized
And I've just got to know

Do you ever think when you're all alone
All that we can be, where this thing can go?
Am I crazy or falling in love?
Is it real or just another crush?

Do you catch a breath when I look at you?
Are you holding back like the way I do?
'Cause I'm trying and trying to walk away
But I know this crush ain't goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy
Goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy

Has it ever crossed your mind
When we're hanging, spending time girl, are we just friends?
Is there more, is there more?

See it's a chance we've gotta take
'Cause I believe that we can make this into something that will last
Last forever, forever

Do you ever think when you're all alone
All that we can be, where this thing can go?
Am I crazy or falling in love?
Is it real or just another crush?

Do you catch a breath when I look at you?
Are you holding back like the way I do?
'Cause I'm trying and trying to walk away
But I know this crush ain't goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy
Goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy

Why do I keep running from the truth?
All I ever think about is you
You got me hypnotized, so mesmerized
And I've just got to know

Do you ever think when you're all alone
All that we can be, where this thing can go?
Am I crazy or falling in love?
Is it real or just another crush?

Do you catch a breath when I look at you?
Are you holding back like the way I do?
'Cause I'm trying and trying to walk away
But I know this crush ain't goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy
This crush ain't goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy
(Goin' away)
(Goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy)
Do you ever think
When you're all alone
All that we can be
Where this thing can go
(Goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy)
Do you catch a breath
When I look at you
Are you holding back
Like the way I do
(Goin' away-ay-ay-ay-ayy)
Do you ever think
When you're all alone
All that we can be
Where this thing can go

Letting Go

Love is the most playful emotion I had ever known since I learn and discover how it feels. For us, we defined love according to how we feel it or how it influence our life but for me, the best meaning that could fit this word is satisfaction. We may discover and meet potential partners but at the end of the day you will always look for someone who could be with you even at your weakest momment.

However, Loving someone who doesn't love you the way you wanted to be is the most hurtful feeling I believe. There would be times that you wanted to insist and tell him to choose you. In reality you could not please everyone the way you wanted it to happen. Acceptance and letting go are your options to continue the next chapter of your life.. Yes... it hurts so much and you think you can not move on... That's not true.. if you just open your hearts and minds that he is not just the only persons that you care about... your parents... relatives.... and friends are there to fulfill the missing piece of your heart and in the right time, in the right place you may find that special someone that would give you the love you always wanted to have. THINK POSITIVE AND TAKE YOUR MINDS AND HEARTS TO THE BRIGHTER INSIGHT OF LIFE.

For sure one of day, when you still remember all those dramas you had acted before by loving someone you will just laugh at your self and realized how stupid and corny you are... keep it up girl. you can do it.


This song is dedicated to those who feel inlove for the first time but failed...

The First Cut Is The Deepest - Sheryl Crow


I would have given you all of my heart
But there's someone who's torn it apart
And he's taken just all that I have
But if you want I'll try to love again
Baby, I'll try to love again but I know

The first cut is the deepest
Baby, I know the first cut is the deepest
But when it comes to being lucky he's cursed
When it comes to loving me he's worst

I still want you by my side
Just to help me dry the tears that I've cried
And I'm sure going to give you a try
And if you want I'll try to love again
(Try)
Baby, I'll try to love again but I know

The first cut is the deepest
Baby I know the first cut is the deepest
But when it comes to being lucky he's cursed
When it comes to loving me he's worst

I still want you by my side
Just to help me dry the tears that I've cried
But I'm sure gonna give you a try
'Cause if you want I'll try to love again
(Try to love again)
Baby, I'll try to love again but I know

The first cut is the deepest
Baby, I know, the first cut is the deepest
When it comes to being lucky he's cursed
When it comes to loving me he's worst

The first cut is the deepest, baby, I know
The first cut is the deepest try to love again



Sheryl Crow - The First Cut Is The Deepest Mp3